tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post4559163683281881652..comments2023-09-16T05:45:47.214-05:00Comments on The Adventures of Elizabeth: Urgent SerenityElizabeth Maxsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15301271156213625334noreply@blogger.comBlogger67125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-46232679645073225532013-02-15T16:54:31.689-06:002013-02-15T16:54:31.689-06:00Thank you Monica! I went and read your post and I ...Thank you Monica! I went and read your post and I loved it and commented. As I said, I feel I am a private extrovert. Simply because I choose to keep some things private, does not mean something is wrong. I think we live in a society in which tell-all is almost expected, even between friends...boundaries are very thin. Without boundaries, it is easy then, to start following what others (or society) dictates because we don't know what we want (or allow) for ourselves, so we allow others to dictate to us.<br /><br />I heard from a sermon a very good saying: In any given situation.... When you know who you are, then you know what to do. That is pretty darn simple. :-)<br /><br />Big hugs<br />ElizabethElizabeth Maxsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15301271156213625334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-53992460612009839442013-02-09T13:29:19.221-06:002013-02-09T13:29:19.221-06:00Hi Elizabeth,
I was reading your old posts, and bu...Hi Elizabeth,<br />I was reading your old posts, and bumped into this one (Urgent Serenity).<br />Have you ever thought of this? :)<br />http://the-white-bench.blogspot.it/2012/07/introvert-you-are-perfect-way-you-are.html<br />Hope you're doing well with your knee!<br />xoMonicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11541697451249535177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-74543873954387249192012-05-27T23:04:17.437-05:002012-05-27T23:04:17.437-05:00I DO have these feelings and have chalked some of ...I DO have these feelings and have chalked some of them up to being fifty. I have a phrase I've adopted when I'm frustrated and feeling pressured to do something I often can't do anything about... here goes:<br />"I'm not going to worry my pretty little head over it" <br />My mother and husband can say it with me now :) It means two things!<br />One, don't burden me with petty things or things that are beyond my assistance. Two, I'm letting this problem go...it's out of my jurisdiction. <br />and remember it is God that I work for...thankfully! :) <br />Suddenly...the wisdom of fifty outweighs the ..what were we talking about???PCovi https://www.blogger.com/profile/04908877691167450198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-68156911739510522232012-05-10T09:10:15.512-05:002012-05-10T09:10:15.512-05:00I had to come back...since reading and commenting ...I had to come back...since reading and commenting and leaving to do my daily dos, I felt a release of something, maybe just reading this post gave me permission to just be. <br />This is a good post, Elizabeth.<br /><br />xxxxs,<br />Lisa.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11619082746615372159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-61702878192241098422012-05-10T08:40:31.213-05:002012-05-10T08:40:31.213-05:00well this one made me cry, because you hit it on t...well this one made me cry, because you hit it on the rusty nail. And thank you for putting this into words that my own mind couldn't. <br /><br />my thanks<br />LisaLisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11619082746615372159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-29902675742747583902012-05-01T15:46:55.160-05:002012-05-01T15:46:55.160-05:00Oh I so needed this post!!~
I have been feeling li...Oh I so needed this post!!~<br />I have been feeling like this for a while. It is so distressing to feel like you have to hustle, and do, and create, and be better to keep up with everyone else.<br />It gets a bit depressing.<br />I am happy you are taking time for yourself re-exploring the things that you love.<br />Best wishes to you and thank you for the beautiful and heartfelt post.<br />Sincerely,<br />Melinda<br />P.S. Your photos of the vintage dress forms took my breath away! I have a bit of an addiction to them:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-70352136171826772552012-04-28T15:40:28.121-05:002012-04-28T15:40:28.121-05:00Thanks for sharing! I too was feeling much the sa...Thanks for sharing! I too was feeling much the same way and found comfort and hope in your words.Rene Fousthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01268759267579266697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-86656445424097246762012-04-27T12:05:24.345-05:002012-04-27T12:05:24.345-05:00Hi Elizabeth!
Great post, and as always, you expr...Hi Elizabeth!<br /><br />Great post, and as always, you expressed it so beautifully.<br /><br />I have this problem. Sometimes I want to live this Zen existence and then later I am driven and wanting to pursue big ideas. This happens with my shoe closet as well. Some days I want a single pair of shoes to wear everyday and get rid of the rest. And then I want a different pair for every outfit! I am complex and confused. If only Zappo’s would leave me alone.<br /><br />Today, I am somewhere in-between! I read a blog called Zen Habits that I go to for inspiration in simple living. <br /><br />xo<br />your friend, KimAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-57808298051595863032012-04-26T12:40:34.010-05:002012-04-26T12:40:34.010-05:00Hi sweet friend! Hoping you are doing well today!...Hi sweet friend! Hoping you are doing well today! Just thinking of you and sending you cyber hugs!<br /><br />MargoMargo@Legacy of a Single Girlhttp://margomohney.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-60747345979135171412012-04-24T18:46:08.380-05:002012-04-24T18:46:08.380-05:00What a beautiful post. I really never think about ...What a beautiful post. I really never think about 'fitting in' anywhere. Strange huh? I just enjoy what God has given me and enjoy my life. Oh yes, there are the ups and downs but I've decided that, that is life and it's how I deal with them is what is important. Someone once told me to 'enjoy every day of your life, no matter what' and I do. I love you and your blog. You make us think and for that I am thankful that I have found you through blogging. You are perfect just the way you are....being true to yourself:)<br />~Debra xxx<br />Capers of the vintage vixenswww.MaisonStGermain.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03916957841730565226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-58277889420802891052012-04-23T09:07:48.840-05:002012-04-23T09:07:48.840-05:00Yes Kerrie (or anyone else for that matter), I am ...Yes Kerrie (or anyone else for that matter), I am always honored whenever anyone finds anything I have to say worth repeating. :-) I just ask you let me know when it is posted so I can have an extra smile that day...<br /><br />Thank you so much for starting my day out with a smile and even more wisdom and friendship.<br /><br />Big hugs to you all<br />Love<br />Elizabeth :-)Elizabeth Maxsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15301271156213625334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-12914339663306002672012-04-23T05:51:49.068-05:002012-04-23T05:51:49.068-05:00I hear ya sister! its always about doing more...I...I hear ya sister! its always about doing more...I have to remind myself that I only need to listen to my soul...and do what works for me...look forward to hearing more about your changes...or whatever you want to share...thanks!amy of studio four cornershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13352348947230358778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-66956713691157660072012-04-22T22:27:15.041-05:002012-04-22T22:27:15.041-05:00I think I have felt this way my entire life, but t...I think I have felt this way my entire life, but that is what makes me 'me'. It took years of maturing to just be 'me'...and I entered a journey of seeking that 'promised rest' 12 yrs ago and am now just trying to abide in it. And somedays having to return to it. I understand and do feel that urgency out there in the world, it is exhausting and I just don't let it in. I have been reading writings of old, of monks, for a year now and am learning much about the quiet life. It has helped me alot.<br /><br /> I would like to mention this post on my blog with a link if you don't mind. You put it all into words so well as you share your thoughts outloud(so to speak). Thank you. I appreciate it. You encourage me to keep calm and carry on. (hug) oxSeawashedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00299816851144887705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-1810614668007603782012-04-22T07:34:58.877-05:002012-04-22T07:34:58.877-05:00Hello Wise Reader Friends!
Just a note here to le...Hello Wise Reader Friends!<br /><br />Just a note here to let you know how much I have enjoyed reading your comments. I still say that not only do I have the most creative readers, but also the wisest.<br /><br />I have sent my post to several friends to read...not for what I wrote, because of all the wonderful wisdom in these great comments. <br /><br />Thanks so much for sharing what is on your heart for it is your comments that help me (and others) not only to grow, but to know that others around us not only feel the same/gone through it, but are also sane :-)<br /><br />As always, I am so honored that so many take time out of their precious day to write and I am very grateful for that.<br /><br />Big hugs to you all<br />ElizabethElizabeth Maxsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15301271156213625334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-64747399526792266812012-04-22T00:00:37.406-05:002012-04-22T00:00:37.406-05:00Elizabeth,
I have been a fan for several years, bu...Elizabeth,<br />I have been a fan for several years, but was not on the net for a couple years ans have just been following you again for a few months.<br />There has been a notable difference in your posts and I can tell you have been going to new depths spiritually. In my own life when I have pushed deeper into God (and I mean Jesus too :)), I have found a disconnect with all the 'fitting in'. Perhaps that is what is happening with you as well. It has always been uncomfortable at first, but then His identity begins to become recognizable and fits like a glove. I can still fight all the urgency stuff, and have to step back from it all over again. I guess it's just part of the passionate personality!<br />Thank you for always sharing your honest heart. I have never felt that you tried to be something other than your self here, and I appreciate that. You are truly a class act!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-65193052519988502652012-04-21T22:11:53.604-05:002012-04-21T22:11:53.604-05:00The Woman who follows the crowd,
will usually go n...The Woman who follows the crowd,<br />will usually go no further than the crowd.<br />The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in Places, No one has ever been before. ♥<br />~ Albert Einstein....<br />Thinking of you and want you to know I love this post.dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09476112300873891668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-17092827808829124562012-04-21T15:01:46.726-05:002012-04-21T15:01:46.726-05:00Hi Elizabeth,
I'm on a "break" from ...Hi Elizabeth,<br />I'm on a "break" from blogging and decided to catch up on blogs I haven't visited in awhile. So here I am reading your thoughts and like so many of the others- you spoke to my heart and brought to attention what I already knew but couldn't quite put into words. I have no interest in rushed chaotic living. I don't care about fitting into any mold or niche or group. I'm at a time in my life that I choose calm. I've removed chaos from my life in many forms and it feels wonderful to finally embrace the knowledge that I had the choice all along.<br />Just being and enjoying the stillness and the beauty of my life with the people and furry friends I chose. I've experienced some very painful events in the last ten years. And I'm okay. Happy with who and where I am in my life. I can't thank you enough for sharing from your heart and I so look forward to to hearing about your journey.<br />xxx, TinaTina@WhatWeKeephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03784869477053139668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-75672394724205594752012-04-21T13:10:32.748-05:002012-04-21T13:10:32.748-05:00I promise I'm not a stalker, but had to respon...I promise I'm not a stalker, but had to respond to the quote you left on my blog. The artist is Howard Ikemoto and I have it on a chalk board in my studio. The almost 300 students I enjoy teaching also love that quote. The very best to youLaine Barleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18210168910477319789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-82273302860059632572012-04-21T11:04:55.896-05:002012-04-21T11:04:55.896-05:00I'm right there with ya~! I had just posted o...I'm right there with ya~! I had just posted on my blog about creating what God pushes through us so it won't go "uncreated" and then decided to read your blog. wa-lah~! I think you live it ~! I've followed you for several years and am always inspired by both your honest writing and your projects. How brave of you to tell it like it is. I think you're precious sweet woman~!.. You'll come out better for the journey and the honesty of where you are.Laine Barleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18210168910477319789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-67757790114039010422012-04-20T14:02:31.229-05:002012-04-20T14:02:31.229-05:00Elizabeth, if ever I had a soul sista!...it would ...Elizabeth, if ever I had a soul sista!...it would be you :)<br /><br />Thank you so very for your beautiful words gracing my site leaving your comment that so encourages all that I do through him, our Lord.<br /><br />God is so good to have placed me in your path, knowing all that I am confronted with is all made good through him, and best of all our visits that he has made possible via blog, email, and encouragement that may await us when most needed. (Via U.S Post)<br /><br />You are a friend to adore.<br /><br />Someday we will be with him and he will make sure we are creating side by side, :)<br /><br />So many well deserved blessings to you my friend.<br />xoxo<br />DoreBurlap Luxehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16134718817693134037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-43213271195458600442012-04-20T10:47:31.602-05:002012-04-20T10:47:31.602-05:00rah. "contentment" ~ authentically sati...rah. "contentment" ~ authentically satisfied with the now. still seeking excellence in all we do, but not obsessing about it all...just a mindset that drives our actions and navigates the issues in our hearts. The urgency you speak of - to me - is simply a byproduct that rises up from the use of the web, the media, the instant access everyone has to everything. more is more is more. look and see look and see look and see... some more. "Comparison" judging my here and now with that of others around me. No one is alike. That can bring about the Square Peg thinking it must fit in a Round Hole.<br /><br />NOT GOOD. It's basically the same principle as "the PURSUIT of happiness"...right? If happiness must be pursued, then you will never be happy while you are seeking because it must be found. If we have to look for it in "external"...and it is not already in the "internal"...then all of us will never find it. I hear you. the urgency of it all....it's a lie. I'm glad you are "getting it"...and so we all should ponder the number of empty feelings that come attached to the overflowing feelings of doing being doing being doing being...yes. to be in the days of resting - reclining even... in contentment. enough is enough. In the twilight years, what will we look back on and receive the happiest memories from??? thanks for sharing a GREAT post. Pleasing GOD (in my life personally) is the hub from which all pursuits, works, visions, hopes and yes, contentments should be "the spokes" driving the wheels of our days. a hug as you find your center. :-)Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11503664045488972731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-42573026853526433122012-04-20T09:24:48.968-05:002012-04-20T09:24:48.968-05:00Hey girl,
Well, you know how I feel about all of t...Hey girl,<br />Well, you know how I feel about all of this, from all our e-mails and texts and phone conversations!<br />I feel like you crawled right into my head and stole my thoughts. No wonder I call you my sista from another mother. ;-)<br /><br />I love what our friend Carol said above. That's sort of where am, too. Just wanting to be true to myself, and not wear myself out trying to fit in with people or cliques where I realy don't belong, anyway.<br /><br />There will ALWAYS be a place for your square pegged self in my life, dear friend.<br /><br />Love you to pieces,<br />Another Square PegAnne Loryshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06586805595011675799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-29869403733097247412012-04-20T07:38:53.257-05:002012-04-20T07:38:53.257-05:00Elisabeth,
I loved your post. It is so hard but s...Elisabeth, <br />I loved your post. It is so hard but so important to sit with the "not knowing", as we are in a tough economy and we are so socialized and rewarded for doing and being everything for everyone, all of the time. So we look at our "not knowing" as an illness at first! At first pathologize our "not knowing" and "not doing". Thank you for your reminding me to just be, to not know, and to do so with faith.Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12660544983858368885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-48689067386791904452012-04-20T01:03:36.551-05:002012-04-20T01:03:36.551-05:00Elizabeth you know how much I love you! I don'...Elizabeth you know how much I love you! I don't know how you do it...everytime I read your words, whether in post or our emails...it always hits home with me. You know I have always mentioned this to you and you have guided me on this journey. <br /><br /> Even last week you gave me words of encouragement and a great business tip. The last month opening the shop has been overwhelming and I have felt that I don't want to do what everyone else is doing...I dont want an all white shop. I dont want a primitive shop. I want an EVERYTHING shop...a me shop to show what I like and I can create. <br /><br /> You are truly amazing and I was thinking this the whole time Im scrolling down and looking at the beautiful dress forms and your soothing words. I also have no patience so Im glad you discovered what didn't fit and now you have made peace with it and are living your life. Can't wait till you share the rest.<br /><br />Love to you always my friend...<br /><br />MJ<br />Lucky 7 DesignMJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03944580541689529669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29659542.post-58111297154570125782012-04-18T23:36:06.667-05:002012-04-18T23:36:06.667-05:00Hi Elizabeth, such amazing photos full of the righ...Hi Elizabeth, such amazing photos full of the right kind of passion, nothing amiss.<br /><br />You my friend are not meant to fit in, you and your talent is meant to stand out.<br /><br />You gently grace the blog world with messages that soulfully touch us with meaning, and thought.<br /><br />Gods plan for you is so much bigger than mans junk! I look forward to all that is laid in your path knowing that you share with us the best part of what inspires your journey.<br /><br />lots of love and prayers to you my friend.<br /><br />Fondly,<br />xoxo<br />DoreBurlap Luxehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16134718817693134037noreply@blogger.com